Touring the town where I had my first date, my first kiss, and
attended both grammar and Jr. High Schools was a nostalgic trek for me.
The people who live in this house were not at home to speak to. My
sister and I and three brothers all slept in one big bedroom upstairs in
this two bedroom one bath. A porch once ran the width of the front. I
amazed myself at how many memories came floating back just seeing the
place. If you’ve never done a trip like this, I’d recommend it.
I found one neighbor who still lived two doors down from us, Mrs.
Clifford Jensen. Her husband Clifford and his sister Julie were very
young, Bob and Nancy, both deceased, were close to my age. She kind of
filled me in on changes in the neighborhood over the years.
From that house I attended St. Patricks Catholic Church, a beautiful
old cathedral style church of which there are many in Escanaba.
Unfortunately, I couldn’t get inside, it was boarded up, trees are
growing out of the bell tower and it had been hit by lightening a week
ago. The building is for sale. I sang in the choir here, two masses
most Sundays. I talked to the nuns about joining the convent and when
my father found out he whisked us out of Escanaba to nearby Danforth to
get me away from that Parrish with these words: “No daughter of mine is
going to make a decision like that at age 11.”
We moved back to Escanaba and lived in this duplex which also had a
porch shared by both parties. Mrs. Niderost, our landlady lived in the
right half. This house had a full basement. Here I got my first kiss at
age 13 from a boy named Bob Morin. (I still attended St. Patricks
Church, but the subject of a novitiate never came up again.) This house
is only half a block from Lake Michigan and a neighbor facing the water
would let us swim off his dock and taught me to water ski.
My date and I went to a Sunday matinée at this now closed theater in town.
And to Saykillys Sweet Shop for a tin roof sundae. My visit to
Sakilly’s saddened me. The counter was removed three years ago. The
booths you can barely discern at the left side of the room, long gone.
the juke box, gone, but the only constant in life is change, so I
shouldn’t have been surprised. Sakillys is now home made candy and a
gift shop, much expanded.
Mrs. Sakilly weighing candy. She is long gone, as is her sister,
Angela Kabasic. Angela and Pete owned and ran Kabasics store where we
shopped for penny candy and groceries. In those days we had credit at
the store. Mom would send us for a pound of sugar or something and we’d
say “put it on the bill.”
The store is much expanded, modernized, and still run by a family
member, George Kabasic. It at one time had a counter running the full
width of the store. You walked up to the counter and Pete would go get
what was on your list one item at a time. Talk about sloooow! It amazes
me how they could wrest a living from the place. Kabasic was a butcher
and he had good meat and they still have fresh meat in a case at the
back of the store.
Downtown, the Ludington Hotel was considered the “Ritz”. It had
bellmen. They were dressed in red uniforms similar to the little guy
who “called for Philip Morris” in the cigarette ads. I remember wishing
I could go into the hotel just to see what a hotel was like, it was so
beautiful. It is on the State Historical Register, but it has lost its
luster. Now, it is apartments and only a few rooms are rented out as a
hotel, with a downsized dining room and bar. It was closed so I never
did get my peek except through the door and a window.
Another place that fascinated me was Just Ask…
Gust Asp. Gus and I think his wife’s name was Dena, no longer own the
business. I knew it was a cigar shop, or men’s shop. I never went
inside. This time I did. It is a liquor store, fast food sandwiches,
meat, cigs and all sorts of “stuff”. I shopped my babysitting dollars at
Kresges and Woolworths. Woolworths had neumatic tubes that took your
money to the cash handlers visable upstairs. Then the neumatic tube
delivered your receipt and change to the clerk downstairs bagging your
purchases. Both stores were gone and the signage covered over. (I made
Jim take me back right after the sun set to capture this picture of the
sign flashing its dual message.)
We went looking for the schools I attended. Escanaba Jr. High,
expanded on the back side was still there. Escanaba High School the one
we knew, no longer exists. My sister graduated from it. My Grammar
School, likewise, completely gone.
A jut of land on Little Bay de Noc uses a crib light to warn boats
and ships away from danger. It took over for the Sand Point Light House
in 1939.
The Sand Point Lighthouse has been refurbished and is now a museum
with fully furnished living quarters. The most fascinating thing about
it is the light keeper, Mr. John Terry, died the day before he was
supposed to go to work in 1868. His wife, Mary Terry took over and lit
the light until 1886 when she died in a mysterious fire. This complex
included the lighthouse, a rescue boathouse on rails that could be
pulled to the nearby water for rescue operations, a coast guard
memorial, and a wonderfully done museum and archives in a separate
building, all for the family price of $5. I got a line on people I knew,
(one of the docents was my older sisters age) and a newspaper picture
of Pete Dube, an olympic skating trainer. He died in 1963. My dad took
us out to Little Bay de Noc to see Pete Dube Skate across the bay and
back when he was in his seventies.
We stopped for a beer at the Eagles Club. A brewpub on the street was closed.
There are many historical buildings in this town and the Elks Club is
one of them, imprinted on the building, 1925. It has a 6 lane bowling
alley upstairs according to some folks at the Eagles Club. (The Elks
CLub wasn’t open.) We are on picture rationing, so I’ll be doing a part
two on Escanaba, tomorrow.
